hi i am 15 years old and it seems like all my friends have boyfriends and i'm the only one who doesnt! i'm in highschool and i feel left out am i ugly? i dont know maybe something is wrong with me? i'm asian/filipino i'm about 5'6 i have medium lenght dark brown hair with side bangs i'm sort of tan i'm not that skinny but not that fat either i dont have the biggest boobs but i do have a butt i feel really sad i think ppl find me unattractive or something but it kind of bothers me wat do u think is wrong with me and do i seem ugly or is it maybe because of my personality???
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
You just haven't found the right person for you. Don't worry about it. It's very normal. There is nothing wrong with you.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
dont worry your time will come just be patient and be yourself
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
you're not ugly. maybe you just are shy around guys. or mr. right hasnt come along yet. dont worry about it, boyfriends arent always beneficial. so just be patient : ) and have high self esteem.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
You need some self confidence and an attitude that tells us. Hey this is me I dont need a man, you can take me or leave me. (but dont act snobby). Just show us that you arent dependant on a dude.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
if you think your ugly. your probably ugly
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
Maybe you seem desperate... And believe me, that DOES scare guys more than anything else.
Maybe if you stopped worrying about getting a boyfriend and start being yourself, maybe you'd enjoy life more, and you'd see how guys approach a confident girl :-)
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
it just happends. i'm 12 i have no social life i'm lonely i just deal with it.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
Maybe it's that you're insecure and you just think and talk all the time about how you look. Be confidant and radiate that, and people will want to be around you. Read the book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" to know how to be with other people. And, all those girls with bf's may not be all that happy, they may just feel peer pressure to have a bf. It's too soon to settle down with just one person.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND!
just be patient.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
You are still young! You have a whole future before you to date guys! Personality matters so much more than looks. We are all going to age and get wrinkles but one thing that stands the test of time is your personality. Just be the way you are, and don't let what others say about you affect you. You are unique and special!
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
you are not ugly. Just take your time, as you mature into your body and your mind and personality you will become more attractive to other people. I would not worry about it when you are a teenager. Just keep meeting new people, make new friends and try to find guys that have similar interests to you. I am sure you will meet the right man when the time is right. I would not worry about dating or relationships until you are in college. Take time to get to know yourself right now, without worrying about taking care of someone else right now.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
Look guys are guys they'll come around. It's tough when your a little bigger, big boned I should say. Guys usually like the skinny, flaky girls at that age. Don't worry just have a positive self image, work on your grammar a bit too while your at it, and you'll have a guy in no time. Best of luck.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
Sounds to me like you just want to jump on the boat with your other friends. You should be enjoying high school, not worrying about whether you're ugly or not. All that crap comes after college. Trust me.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
well first let me tell you something there is nothing wrong with you, build up your confidence cause people can see that, second let the person find you , so what they got boyfriends you dont want to end up pregnant by the 12 grade, trust me i was just like you and i wish i can go back in time to change things cause all i got was a broken heart through out high school and nosy people all up in my relationships, so dont rush things trust me
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
don't wrry nothing is wrong with you, ur time and right guy just hasnt come by yet so its nothing to stress about (: dnt lower ur self esteem just becuz u dnt have a bf..i know its wierd at times wen all ur friends have boyfriends and u dnt but if u stop thinking about it too much it won't bother you as much and u can focus ur attention to guys and get to know them better, instead of thinking ur abnormal for being single (: best of luck! im shur you'll find ur right guy soon (:
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
I never had a real bf in high school either, so I know that feeling very well. Trust me hun it's nothing to do with your looks. Ordinarily I'd say chill out and let it happen, or you'll start sending out desperado vibes which is a real romance killer, but if you really really want a bf try this - look at your behaviour. Are you open to talking to guys? Are you shy? Are you always with your friends? You have to send out a 'receptive' vibe for guys to want to risk making a move on you.
Don't worry about it if you are shy, wait until you're older. I'm not saying you'll grow out of it, but the guys will be more mature and start noticing the shy ones.
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
girll ... i think you need to have a little more self estem . dont be worring about wether not ur as pretty as the other girls at school . or if something is wrong witih you. to me you sound pretty and im filapino too ... and were pretty cute dont you think! but the more happy you are witih your self the more other people will be attracted to you!!! ... and your 15 dont worrie about wether you have a boyfriend or not just have fun! and be with your girls go hang out places and hey if a guy comes along go for it .. but dont worrie about a boy .. ugh im 16 and been going out with my man for a year and belive me soemtimes its not always great!
Help! feel left out no boyfriend wats wrong with me?!?
mmkay; by the way you are desribeing your self; you sound like me; im 14; black mexican %26amp;%26amp; indian; five four; 127 pounds. i dont have the biggest butt; but i have boobs [ lmao =]] i have medium lenght dark brown hair with side bangs ... lols. %26amp;%26amp; it seem like all my friends have boyfriends %26amp;%26amp; im all alone... %26amp;%26amp; i fall for pretty much every guy i see; %26amp;%26amp; end up heartbroken in the end... i always feel like i am ugly or to outgoing; or to shy; or to fatt; or to skinny; or blah blah... but last night me %26amp;%26amp; my bestfriend were talkin about the guy im currently in love with %26amp;%26amp; i was crying %26amp;%26amp; what not... then she told me what im bout to tell you ... your beautiful; girls are like apples on a tree; all the best ones are at the very top ... %26amp;%26amp; guys are to scared to climp for those ones cause the are scared they will fall... so instead they go for the easy ones at the bottem ... but one day you will find a guy who will take the rist to fall just for you ..... idk might sound kinda corny but in a way it kinda helped me; %26amp;%26amp; i hope it helped you too... %26amp;%26amp; no guy is gunna think your beautiful untill you do. so belive in your self %26amp;%26amp; i belive you will find him.
=]] really hoped that helped...
--michelle [aka] babycakes.
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