I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

if your biracial or not you may understand. I myself, am half black/half white, when people ask me my race. I say white, just to throw them off. I am a darker than the average "milano" person. I consider myself "other" because my dad isnt 100% black and my mom mostly white. But this is the thing i dont understand, the criticizm. At a young age, i knew i was different. Black girls telling me " you act too white " and pulling my curly hair telling me its a weave, when it wasnt. And white girls telling me that i should stop acting white. I dont appreciate either of the comments from either races, i am me. No one else, I am proud of who i am, half black and half white. I could be put in a sterotype of " prep " but i get critized for it often. I, personally am physically attracted to white/hispanic/asian boy, I cant tell you why, but I personally am. Why is that so wrong in society? Because I look black i must be black and like black boys? Or act black? I dont under America somedays.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

you are who you are. ppl ask me the same thing. dont worry your not the ignorant one :) when those black girls pull your hair thats because they want to have your curly hair. when the white ppl tell you to stop acting white thats because they dont have nothing else to say. what makes a person "black" or "white" no one can tell you what you are.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

My daughters went through the same thing. Most people want to classify you either black or white.

My youngest has started telling strangers she's Hawaiian. Just screwing with them.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

Not that it's right at all but generally people for some reason consider having black blood then you are black just like if you dropped food coloring into milk it would change the color. I would consider you to be mixed, most of us are a mix of something to the point that we don't really know what we are. Many of the people in Mexico are a mix of Spanish and Native American.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

you live your life and be happy. do whatever makes you happy. don't worry about what other people say, just be yourself

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

Just like Tiger Woods. He's a mixture of black, white, indian (native) and some European. A lot of people instantly label him as black and he gets offended because he considers himself white as much as black. Which he has a right too.

Just consider yourself what you want to be, if others don't understand...it's their problem. Don't be around them. 90 per cent of people are idiots...you'll learn this in time. Ignore them and just look for the other 10 per cent. In the end, you have about 100 "friends" but when the poop hits the fan and you need someone to lean on, re-count how many friends you have. It's a lot less. ;)

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

i am black- i think. my grandma is hispanic, black, and idian. my grandfather is black. so my mom is all 3. my dad is black. what am I? i don't know but society says i am black. i say i am mixed yet people look at me like i am crazy because i am dark and yes my hair is nappy. lol but still i am all 3.

my husbands mom i black and her mom was black and white so does that make my husband black and white. and if so what does that make my daughter. i am saying all of this crap to say this.... NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE THINK, I BELIEVE NO ONE IS A PURE RACE. SO ARAYANS YOU GUYS BETTER START KILLING YOURSELVES NOW.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

I am a mixed man and I am attracted to black and Latino women. I am rarely attracted to white women. I got called Mexican all of the time. Aside from being called Mexican I found black people to be the most accepting. The majority of my friends were and are black. I find black people to be the lease racist. I had a Friend who I hung out with for years who found out my dad was black and was surprised. He thought I was white with a good tan. This kid never mentioned race. I don't even think about it much any more. The girls who tease you would probably trade places with you in an instant. Don't let them take away your shine girl. Its funny how mediocrity is able to convince superiority that it is anything but. Don't let it do it to you.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

I don`t get it either. My ex boyfriend, who is Canadian and black, was told by someone during a trip to the States that he "spoke too white," to which he promptly responded "you mean 'educated'?" (LOL he cracks me up)

Me, I`m half French, half Irish, all contrarian, so when I`m with French people I tell them I`m Irish and when I`m with Irish people I tell them I`m French. Just to be difficult....

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

I AM BLACK AND I UNDERSTAND i actually could pass for mixed. back in the day white people considered u black and black gurls were jealous of mixed girls because for one black men were brainwashed and thought white was better!!! they couldnt have white so they went for the next best thing which was light skinned black girls and mixed girls. thats all. and u are other. u arent black or white which creates something else. i know mixed girls who look black its just because u got more of the black genes. both my parents are dark and i came out somewhat mixed lookin in a way!!! white and black people think im mixed!!! hell my cousin is black and he looks mexican and my other cousin is black and white and he looks arab!!!! i go with a white boy and black men hate it, but what gets me is that they date white women and other races but im not allowed!!! double standards!!! u are biracial whether u look like it or not!!! u could sit and have a baby with a black person and have it come out lookin white as hell, its the genes and most black people in this country aint a 100% black thats what seperates us from africans.

my black friends joke with my about my job and sayin that they aint gon hire a black person and i say they hired me and they be like thats cuz u white making reference to my light complexion they say that they prolly think u half white!!!! there is no such thing as actin white or black in my eyes, just cuz black guys walk wit they pants saggin its black but over in africa they dont do that so does that mean they aint actin black. the same goes for europe. white here in america is wearin hollister do they do that in europe. i wear hollister pants but i dont act white in my opinion!!!!! i am me just like u said!!!! and if u look black then they are gonna think u are i mean u cant help that like mexicans sometims come up to my cousin speakin spanish!!!!

and another thing is i hate when people who are mostly black try and claim something else if ur mostly black then your black, i mean yea u have other things in you but u are black. like me i have black white and indian in me. i am mostly black so i say im black. cuz u know what white people didnt care if u was 1/4 black u was seen as a '******' as they called us, so please to those out there stop tryin to be somethin your not. and when u really think about it everyone one in this country is mixed. some white people rent 100% white and the same with blacks how do u think u have light skinned black people my mom is dark but if u wanna be technical she aint black her grandma was indian!!!!

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

I am not biracial but I have dated many black men and I have 1 biracial niece and 2 biracial nephews. First let me tell you that biracial people are the most beautiful people I have ever seen. Don't let the stupidity of others question who you are. Be yourself and don't let what other people think bother you. It doesn't matter what color you are attracted to, we are all the same inside. I wish everybody thought this way but unfortunately not everybody is educated enough to think this way. Date, act and talk how you want and ignore those who choose to criticize you for that.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

You act the way you want %26amp; screw the people who say that. People just don't raise their kids right sometimes. Take a look at Hines Ward from the Pittsburgh Steelers, he is biracial I think %26amp; he is one gorgeous man. People who try %26amp; put you down are only insecure themselves

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

I楹搈 half-white, half-Mexican and I always get comments from both sides saying "You don楹搕 look Mexican". It楹搒 not a rule that darker skin always cancels out lighter skin, I mean look at Mariah Carey. My dad is dark-skinned and a lot of people would assume that he楹搒 my stepdad just because my skin color is different from his. I楹搗e always been attracted to both white and hispanic men and I think that楹搒 only natural. People stereotype the way you look and think you should behave according to their standards and no one who isn楹搕 biracial can really understand it.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

I'm Hispanic and happen to like white guys. I get put down for it, too, as if I'm supposed to only like other Hispanics or it's "wrong" to date outside our ethnic group.

Yes, I've also been told that I act "too white" or even that I sound white.

I've learned to ignore those kinds of comments. The people who think that way are ignorant and often very racist. Why give their opinions any weight? As long as I do what I feel is right, that's what matters. If I meet a Hispanic or Black or Asian or Native American or whatever guy and we click, then I'll go for it.

So far, it's typically white guys that attract me and I'm not going to apologize for it or act like it's wrong because it's not. Don't let them get to you!

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

Generally, I sympathize with you about having to choose. Just shows how color struck this country still is.

But I do think you have racial issues since you say you're physically attracted to everyone except black men. That ain't just physical attraction hun, that's something else.

Maybe that's what people are picking up on. Seems like you're quite happy to own the white part of your heritage, but are rejecting the black part. That's unfortunate, but it is what seems to be coming through from your write-up.

And no, I'm not saying you have an obligation to identify as anything that you don't want to.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

Again the problem is the cause of Ignorance, educate your self, learn, what ever you which, first to show your own self, you can use your own God giving gift of Intelligence because who you are, and not because what you represent, So, then you can represent any one you want, or fell more comfortable to represent, be or become, and although I'm mix, Spanish-Indian from South America, many times I say, just to please people I'm 51% Spanish, though I'm thinking from with-in, and I fell 99.9% South American Indian.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

don't let them get to you, I've been there and not to much has changed. I'm biracial and almost 40yo, it's never stopped. people (total strangers) still ask me the most offensive questions. I'm not white, I'm Puerto Rican, black and Irish I've been told mostly by blacks, that i need to pick a side either white or black. that makes no sense to me i am what i am and will not apologize to any one for my skin color or pick a side. don't try to understand craziness, elevate your self to higher thinking than what the "pure bloods" dictate.plus we have a way better gene pool than them....

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

Tell them all to bugger off.

I'm a biracial girl. answer me this?

you have a good attitude if only other people could see beyond race